When is the best time to be happy?

When is the best time to be happy you ask? Is this a trick question, Larry? The answer is that the best time to be happy is now! Happiness is not about what happens to you. It is in your mind. You have to make the decision to be happy.

You must be happy BEFORE not during or after. What am I referring to? How many times have you heard someone say that after this happens or that happens I will be happy. After I get the big deal, or after I get the promotion or after this or that, then I will be happy.

In business I like to broaden happiness to refer to a POSITIVE STATE OF MIND. Now some folks may think of this whole subject as rather corny, but I believe that happiness is real, and it can be achieved by everyone. To get there is a decision that you must make every day, all day.

Here is my list of the things to do to maintain a positive attitude in business which lead to happiness:

1. Surround yourself with positive people and positive things. The inverse of this is that to do this you must eliminate the negative people in your life.
2. Read and listen to positive books and CD’s. Cheap guys like me get them from the library. The converse is that you should turn off the news, the MP3 or CD player.
3. Say all things in a positive way…why you can, not why you can’t.
4. BELIEVE you can achieve it! Whatever is your dream, you must see it BEFORE you can do it.
5. Don’t listen to the well meaning opinions of other people.
6. Start NOW and work at it every day.

A positive attitude takes work, study and a lifelong dedication to maintain it every day. Before you start your day, find a few pages of positive wisdom to focus on. Meditate. Cure yourself from the negative thoughts of I can’t. Be like “the Little Engine That Could”.

One of the biggest problems for folks who have been around a while is that we know too much. Be more like you were as a kid before you knew the realities of life. Little kids know and believe that they can do anything.

Finally, when you find yourself thinking that you are having a lousy day, spend five minutes dealing with the problem and no more and then move on. Don’t RESIGN yourself to your fate, rather RESOLVE to be happy.

Regards,
Lawrence Dickstein